WHICH WAY DO I GO?

Every step we take gives us a choice of two or more roads and a hell lot of confusion.

Every decision, every decision is the same.

So the options you have is following your parents words(including friends) or way paved by the society and the least the way we pave for ourselves.

If you choose your parent’s path, you are going to live your life with someone else’s unfinished dream. By the time you realize, you cannot go back and change that particular step. You start walking unwantedly and unwillingly in the same path without enjoying the path and the journey.

If you choose the path laid out for you by the society, you could never ever do a thing without doubts ,discussions and hours spent(though of no use). You will spend your entire life with fear rather than happiness. By the end of the day, the same society points you and pricks you for the way you led your life, for the step you took. You turn as a loner.

So choosing the path you pave for yourself is much better. Now there arises a question as per a common word of mouth, what do i follow-my heart or my brain? 

Choosing your brain gives you intellectual decisions. It gives you pride, name,money,society,car, bank balance and stuff. But you lose the opportunity to do what you love. For instance, i loved poetry during schooling. Just that it would not fetch me money, i did my engineering. Finally i resulted to be working in an MNC as a robot and lost all my skill and passion for poetry. At the worst part, i lost the heart to enjoy nature and to look at things in a poetic way.

If i say, follow your heart !! I am sure people will look at you as an emotional fool. You end up no-where in the society of selfish people. Yes,you will find your own path, you will enjoy your career and passion. But you will be facing twists and turns, potholes and speed bumps in relationships, careers.

So,what do i do?

Follow your heart and brain together. Imagine other's in your place and think what do you expect from such people. You get your answer. 

Dare to live your life as per your choice.