WHICH WAY DO I GO?

Every step we take gives us a choice of two or more roads and a hell lot of confusion.

Every decision, every decision is the same.

So the options you have is following your parents words(including friends) or way paved by the society and the least the way we pave for ourselves.

If you choose your parent’s path, you are going to live your life with someone else’s unfinished dream. By the time you realize, you cannot go back and change that particular step. You start walking unwantedly and unwillingly in the same path without enjoying the path and the journey.

If you choose the path laid out for you by the society, you could never ever do a thing without doubts ,discussions and hours spent(though of no use). You will spend your entire life with fear rather than happiness. By the end of the day, the same society points you and pricks you for the way you led your life, for the step you took. You turn as a loner.

So choosing the path you pave for yourself is much better. Now there arises a question as per a common word of mouth, what do i follow-my heart or my brain? 

Choosing your brain gives you intellectual decisions. It gives you pride, name,money,society,car, bank balance and stuff. But you lose the opportunity to do what you love. For instance, i loved poetry during schooling. Just that it would not fetch me money, i did my engineering. Finally i resulted to be working in an MNC as a robot and lost all my skill and passion for poetry. At the worst part, i lost the heart to enjoy nature and to look at things in a poetic way.

If i say, follow your heart !! I am sure people will look at you as an emotional fool. You end up no-where in the society of selfish people. Yes,you will find your own path, you will enjoy your career and passion. But you will be facing twists and turns, potholes and speed bumps in relationships, careers.

So,what do i do?

Follow your heart and brain together. Imagine other's in your place and think what do you expect from such people. You get your answer. 

Dare to live your life as per your choice.

Women and crime-TWIN SISTERS !!

Being a female from south Asia , I knew what a woman undergoes or what it is to

take birth as a female. Right from the infant stage, you are thought to kill 

your dreams, follow someone’s words and live in a prison set by the society 

and parents (which they consider as a safety trap to protect you). 

You would not even be given your fundamental rights.

And the actual story begins when you are married, you turn as a victim 

to the male’s ego, anger, frustration. It’s on a daily basis that you face uphill 

battle. If this is the story of a married woman.. Now there is other face of the 

coin..the married and unmarried girls who get to be assaulted, insulted at every 

place, right from schools, colleges, work places and the public places.

So you can understand that in any way we(women) are the victims, who cannot

share our stories or prove our experiences were eerie and real. As survivors,

who believe in the police or constitution, if there are any rare ones who wish to

stand for legal protection,there wouldn’t be any..It may be due to

several reasons..improper system and rules or the late action taken by the 

system. So you can consider yourself re-victimized. This trauma is manifested 

in every lady of Asia..

Recently I moved to London..one of the world class cities ever known. Right 

from the history till date, it is known as the hub for business, education, IT 

sector and so on, which means development in every phase known. The word 

WELL-DEVELOPED NATION suits here. So I was with a preconception that 

men and women are equally treated here. This city has people from all 

around the world. I was shocked to see, similar cases with every female.

Research says that 3 out of 4 are being victimized due to assaults becoming 

more frequent. They are committing suicides or being killed. This behavior has 

turned out like a growing cancer. I felt flinching and nauseated every 

time I heard of such stories in the newspapers .

The point is that, nobody haw the patience or wish to move forward through 

the legal system. Because, they didn’t want to overturn their lives for nothing — 

as law dictates to notify the police and file the case,which would end up no 

where, at least for years.

My goal is to now make a change keeping aware, awake, and alive. I know 

that I would not be capable of influencing mass change.

Without being aware of, and correcting, our own flaws, any change will end 

up back where it started. So look back and try to change your conditions and 

of it still wouldn’t set your life..stand up and fight for your rights.

And others try to stand with the victimized and help them.

#respectlife

WRITERS ARE AWESOME

                 
Hey you, I just said you are awesome !!!

You are a wonderful writer. Few people have been influenced by you and your writings.
Your work has a prominence in this world.

You don't believe??

I'll show you who you are and what you are.

Right from centuries ago, we notice people writing. Though it be diaries, journals, articulation of feelings or experiences was always there. Consider the stories as Ramayan, Mahabharat,  Illiad's ...everything and everything came crossing so many centuries only with the help of this articulation. We read about dinosaurs, about UFO's, about galaxies and spiral systems, the bombings in some part of the world. We can describe them too, and all that happened due to phrasing those as words. So, is the power of words. They can form imaginations, thought processes of other people.

If a book has a power to change the world, bring revolutionary thoughts, make people sad/cry, Imagine the depth of the writings.

You would have written a diary too, of your own personal feelings. Did you ever think what if your loved ones get to read the diary. How will they feel about themselves in your world. How would the world portray you?

You and your pen has the power to lead someone... Lets start it.